Hello yellow roses. The one thing that surviving loved ones do that their deceased family would not want them to do, is make decisions based on what the deceased person would have liked or made themselves in life. This is a trap that grief stricken people tend to do to show their loved one that they miss them and in a bizarre way, the person coping with grief feels like it is paying respect or honouring the individual by making a decision based on the other person’s preferences. I can tell you John loves you, wants the best for you and only wants you to be happy. If the car makes you feel good, that is great. Be careful not to live your life by another person’s standards whether they are dead or alive, THIS IS YOUR LIFE. Take care yellow Roses and enjoy your car rides.

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