There are no should’s or should not’s when one is dealing with Free Will and you my friend have free will, that is your God given right. The only question you should be asking yourself is; What Would Love Do? That is all we ever should ask ourselves regardless of the situation and there is where the answer always lies.
If something is ultimately morally correct and if one acts with only Love how can that be wrong? My experience has always showed that if spirit asks something of us; it is not for their good but rather for our’s or perhaps another’s or both. You have the free will to create who you are and who you want to be with every thought, word or action you choose. So I have a couple questions for you; Who do you choose to be in regards to your dilemma and ultimately what would love do?
No one has the right to tell you what to do or what is right or correct for your soul. So get on with creating who you want to be and always act with love and I promise you; you will never make a misstep in life. Sorry for my vagueness in responding.